random thoughts: on responding

"Huwag mong hanapin ang sarili mo sa iba..." heard it from a man who must have been through a lot in his life. It makes sense.

Sometimes I get so frustrated with the expectations I set for myself, and for others as to how they should be. I tend to think that maybe others will be thinking the same way as I should. I'm expecting some kind of initiative from people, but it's just making me more frustrated. Perhaps I should just completely stop expecting (but will not surely stop hoping). I know I can't get them to change their views, but there's a possibility of influencing them.

Each personality (be it admirable, mediocre or bad-ass type) is unique. We are given such so we could learn how to relate with each other. If all of us are thinking the same way, that would be so boring. We are put to the test each time as to how to deal with people around us. We are challenged to think and to respond appropriately.

Will it not be better to ask yourself - HOW SHOULD I BE to them? You can't control what they will throw at you, but you sure can give them a response that will make them think... surprise them with your humble wisdom.